Ensign’s Log, Entry 22: Time for some Introspection

Ensign’s Log, Entry 22: Time for some Introspection

Heather hiking

This is a picture of me in Acadia National Park a couple years ago. It’s also my current profile picture on Scribophile, because I still haven’t gotten a good picture of my face (I’m simply not photogenic.)

I like this picture because it reminds me that sometimes I need to sit down, stare out at the horizon, and just think about whatever comes to mind. Sometimes I get so caught up in trying to do a hundred different things, for work, for family, for friends, that I forget to take a step back and just breathe. And think.

It’s a lot easier to do this when I have that flat horizon. One of my favorite summer pastimes is to go running on the beach, then sit on a rock and watch the horizon. Sometimes I talk to myself, sometimes I talk to whatever bird is passing by, or the ocean, or a wandering crab, sometimes I think about life, or my writing, and sometimes I sit there and simply exist.

I love being surrounded by trees, or mountains, or rolling hills. There are definitely times when I feel at peace when surrounded by such vistas. But it’s that flat horizon that calls to me most of all.

Yesterday I returned from my trip to Ireland. I posted about a few places I visited, and will be posting about others in the future, but one thing I did not do much of during my travels was write.

Not very writerly of me, right? Well, I felt the same way, even berated myself for being so tired after every day of new adventures and not having the energy to write. And there were days when I did write a bit… I even wrote a short story for a writing contest, completely on the fly! But for the majority of my vacation, I wrote nothing. Not one single word.

I had many plans for April. Write 15 poems! Finish the first draft for Of Beauty Within! Finish editing Upgrade! And so on and so on. I had this vision of myself doing all this while enjoying my stay in Ireland–and even traveling briefly to Scotland and England (a trip that deserves its own post(s) at some point!).

How many of those goals did I accomplish? Writing-wise… I accomplished none of them. Not. A. Single. One.

A few days before the end of the April, I saw what day it was, and panicked. How could I be so far behind on my goals? How could I get them done now? What a failure of a writer I was! I was disappointed in myself, not least because it had now been more than a year since I published Augment and I still wasn’t ready to release its sequel, much less any other books.

Thankfully, a friend of mine came to my rescue. It’s not the first time he’s talked some sense into me, and I doubt it will be the last, given my propensity for biting off more than I can chew. All I can say is how grateful I am to have someone who doesn’t mind telling me when I’m being an idiot.

To cut a long conversation short, my friend highlighted all the things I have done so far this year. A lot of progress with The Astrals. Finishing and further revision on Upgrade. A LOT of critiquing on Scribophile (and I’m currently and working on several more novels, as well as a pile of short stories, right now.) Not to mention doing a pretty good (if not perfect) job keeping up with this blog.

Maybe it’s because I often expect too much of myself, that I can’t always see the bright side of things. Or maybe there are times when I just need someone else to point out that I am in fact making progress, even when it doesn’t feel like it. Whatever it is, my conversation with my friend made me realize the truth–by focusing so much on getting so much done, I was losing sight of the most important thing–myself.

And I don’t mean that in an egotistical, the-world-revolves-around-me way. I mean my self, the writer who dreams of adventures in distant lands and galaxies far far away. Every moment I spent berating myself for failing my goals rather than praising myself for accomplishing everything I had done was a moment I was telling my writer’s side that I’m not good enough, that I’ve never been good enough.

Today, while cleaning my room (a long overdue task), I found an envelope with a letter inside from a man I only met once, but who I apparently loaned copies of novels I’d written a long time ago. Part of me immediately cringed, knowing what shape those particular stories were in…but I read his letter anyway.

Here’s an excerpt from it:

Make me a promise and continue your writing career. A good book can change the world.

I am looking forward to walking into a book store one day and buying one of your books off the best-seller shelf. Authors need life experiences to draw upon in their writing, so go experience a lot of life in as short a time as possible.

This letter is from five years ago today. In those five years, I found the college of my dreams, earned my degree, and published my first novella. I also found friends, and love, and new passions.

So what, exactly, is this post about? It’s about remembering the important things, most importantly, to do what is right for myself. Right now, I’m not an author who can write and publish a book every few months. Perhaps I will never be that author.

But I do have stories and characters I care about, tales I want to share with the world. However slow the progress might be, I’m going to keep pressing onward, experiencing new ideas and new places every day. Every journey begins with a single step… And every story begins with a single word.


  1. I love the advice from that letter, “go experience a lot of life in as short a time as possible”!

    And from one person who bites off more than I can chew and mentally beats myself up over everything I haven’t gotten done – resting, recharging, and experience life through vacationing is really productive

    1. I was so surprised when I stumbled across that letter today. I’d completely forgotten meeting the guy, much less loaning him my books to read. That phrase, though, really stuck out to me. Going to do my best to keep experiencing life anew every day. πŸ™‚ And I totally agree, R&R is important. That’s pretty much what my Ireland trip ended up being–and I’m very glad it was!

  2. I do that thing where I’m so keen to accomplish more that I forget how far I’ve come. And yeah, sometimes it’s good to take a step back and recharge. I’m bad at that, too. But it sounds like the right reminders came along at the right time for you πŸ™‚

  3. I completely understand why you mean! I’ve stopped writing (in a major way) twice, and I think both times it was to do with the load of all my expectations. Sometimes your goals can seem like a huge mountain rather than a ladder to help you up! Since then my mantra has become ‘little steps’ – I literally say this in my head every day. I also jot down in my diary 3-5 of those little steps I want to achieve every day. It might be something as simple as sending someone an email. But most days I achieve all of the little steps and then I’m a little further up the mountain πŸ™‚

    1. I think that’s exactly what I need to do, at least until I stop pressuring myself to get too much done. πŸ™‚ One step at a time gets you up the mountain a lot faster than if you try to run, trip, and fall back down…

  4. I loved this blog post! I am also too hard on myself sometimes and often look more at the ‘to do’ list rather than the ‘have done’ list. I guess the human propensity is to constantly strive rather than to stop, reflect, relax and recuperate. I am learning not to feel guilty in those moments when I just want to sit, take in my surroundings and recharge. The writer is their own main tool. If we don’t keep it in good shape and sharpen it every now an again, it will not be useful. The ‘to do’ list can be put on pause for a while and I will keep learning that each tick on it, even if it it a slow process, is enough.

    1. I agree; I think it’s a part of human nature coming from way, way back when our ancestors had to keep moving, every day, all the time, to survive. I’m slowly starting to move back towards doing things now, but I’m not pushing myself too much, and I’m focusing on what I get done each day, rather than what I have left. It might be slower progress, but I think ultimately I’ll be better for it.

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